April 1, 2025
Enterprise 101 – Ask for the Referral. Get the Reward
Right here’s one in every of my favourite enterprise methods. I don’t solely depend on it. However I prefer it lots.
One of many easiest and handiest methods to develop what you are promoting is to ask for a referral.
I do know, I do know, you’ve heard this earlier than. However in case you’re like most enterprise homeowners, you’re both not asking in any respect, otherwise you’re doing it the mistaken means. And by “mistaken,” I imply sending out some generic, mass electronic mail begging for referrals like a child shaking down the neighborhood for cookie gross sales.
That’s not the way you construct a loyal buyer base. That’s the way you get ignored.
Right here’s the cool factor: Your finest purchasers need you to succeed. They’re already followers of what you are promoting. And identical to sports activities followers who persuade their pals to start out rooting for his or her favourite staff, your finest purchasers will fortunately refer you, in case you ask the correct means.
Even higher, whenever you get a referral, you have already got individuals you recognize in frequent, which creates a greater relationship earlier.
Let’s break this down.
Step 1: Establish your high three clients
Not each buyer is value asking. Some are simply okay. Some are high-maintenance nightmares you wouldn’t want in your worst enemy. However some? The highest tier? They’re gold. These are the individuals who:
– Love what you do and wouldn’t dream of working with anybody else.
– Pay on time, no trouble.
– Sing your praises to anybody who will hear.
These purchasers already assume you’re wonderful. So once they refer somebody, they’re not simply serving to you; they’re constructing their very own fame as somebody who is aware of one of the best within the enterprise.
Step 2: Choose up the cellphone (Sure, actually.)
I get it. Calling individuals can really feel awkward. However this isn’t some chilly gross sales pitch. It is a thank-you name with a bonus.
Right here’s what you say:
“You’ve been such an unbelievable consumer, and I simply need to say thanks. I need to selectively develop my enterprise with individuals identical to you. Since good individuals know good individuals, is there somebody you’ll recommend I join with?”
Then shut up and hear.
Critically. No awkward filler. No nervous rambling. Simply allow them to assume.
One in every of two issues will occur:
1️. They’ll immediately have somebody in thoughts and make the intro. Increase! A brand new lead.
2. They’ll say they’ll’t consider anybody proper now. That’s completely nice as a result of now, the concept is planted of their head. When the correct individual pops up, they’ll bear in mind you.
Step 3: Don’t sound determined.
Desperation is the quickest method to kill a referral alternative. That’s why mass “PLEASE REFER US!!!” emails don’t work. They reek of “We’re struggling and want enterprise NOW.”
Individuals need to refer winners. They need to be related to an organization that’s thriving, not one which’s gasping for air.
So, as an alternative of begging, place your ask as an unique alternative.
“I’m trying to develop strategically with wonderful purchasers such as you.”
See the distinction? You’re not determined, you’re selective. And that makes individuals need that can assist you.
Make referring you straightforward to do.
When somebody says, “Yeah, I do know the proper individual for you!”, don’t make them work out the following step.
- Supply to ship a fast electronic mail they’ll ahead
- Give them a hyperlink to your web site with a referral kind.
- Ask them to CC you in an intro electronic mail.
Make it frictionless. The simpler it’s, the extra probably they’ll observe via.
The payoff: stronger consumer loyalty
Right here’s the sudden bonus: Asking for a consumer referral deepens loyalty along with your present purchasers. As a result of now, they’re personally invested in your success. Once they refer somebody to you, they’re not simply serving to you, they’re proving their very own good style in enterprise companions.
It’s the identical psychology that makes individuals really feel extra related to a sports activities staff once they persuade their pals to grow to be followers. When your high purchasers refer somebody, they grow to be much more loyal to what you are promoting.
Wish to go deeper? Learn these:
For these of you who love a very good playbook, listed here are the precise chapters in my books that may make it easier to grasp the consumer referral recreation:
The Pumpkin Plan (Ch. 7, pgs. 111–130) – How one can determine and focus in your most worthwhile purchasers.
Revenue First (Ch. 6, pgs. 120–126) – Aligning your finest purchasers with sustainable profitability.
Repair This Subsequent (Ch. 3, pgs. 54–89) – Strengthening your gross sales relationships in the correct order.
Get Completely different (Ch. 6, pgs. 151–174) – How one can stand out and make your referral request unforgettable.
Closing thought: For those who don’t ask, the reply is at all times no.
You deserve extra dream purchasers. They’re on the market, you simply want the correct individuals to introduce you.
Now go get these referrals.
– Mike
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